Monday, June 2, 2008

Derick



Isaac and Derick
The smallest member of the choir is a five-year old boy named Derick.  He captured everyone's hearts, but especially those of his host family.  They have two sons Isaac and Jacob who are 11 and 14.  Isaac was especially fond of Derick.  Their mom, Julie, would have kept Derick in a heartbeat.  Isaac would hold his hand up and ask Derick how old he is, then Derick would say "Five!" and give Isaac a five.  Derrick also had a loose tooth.  On Saturday, Julie pulled it before going into the cave.  They put it under his pillow that night, and the tooth fairy left Matchbox cars.  Derick had to go to bed a little earlier than the others because he sometimes falls asleep on stage!  Isaac went in to read him a story, but Derick said, "I want auntie to read to me."  How sweet!  They were missing him before he even left.  

Derick on Sunday in his new clothes.
Precious hands

Weekend Part II

Unfortunately, I don't have any pictures of our first night with the children.  I will tell the story though, and I think it speaks volumes.

When I went to the church to pick up the children and their chaperone, I wasn't sure what to expect.  I went alone so that there would be enough room in the car for the four of them and their luggage.  I entered the church atrium and started down the ramp to the CLC.  At the bottom were several children who all took turns introducing themselves to me with a hug.  They did this for every person who came.  I was humbled that it was the children who had travelled half way around the world who put me immediately at ease.  

We had received the children's names (Pamela, Justine, and Diana), so when they introduced themselves I was able to tell them that they would be going with me.  Each of the three of them just smiled and hugged me again.  The chaperone with them is the head teacher of Humble School, Perpetua.  She was such a nice lady.  We talked a lot about education, comparing the two systems.  The four of them always stay together.  Their respect for her, and everyone, was impressive.

We loaded up the car, one of them asked to pray, and and then we drove home.  They have been in the U.S. since mid-April, so I was a little surprised when we pulled in the drive way, and I heard one of them whisper, "Wow."  Our house is certainly not huge, but we are blessed and could easily forget how much.  I later learned that two of our girls live in straw houses when not in school.  

I put the car in park and began to get out.  I was stopped when I heard three sweet voices in unison say, "Thank you auntie for driving us."  They did this each time we went somewhere.  

We had prepared the whole upstairs for them to use.  Annie and Emma slept in our room.  They were excited by this, and, I think, in awe of the girls' bedrooms.  When I asked Perpetua later if they found everything they needed, she said, "Oh yes, everything.  There are so many babies!"  If they played, they put everything back in the exact spot it was in.  I'm sure they did, as they were up at dawn the next morning, but you would never know by looking in the room.

The girls (all five of them) went out to play.  They were so excited to see the trampoline.  Another family they had stayed with had one.  They jumped (very high!), laughed and giggled.  Justine, in particular loves to laugh.  Her face is full of light.  Pamela, who is older, really liked swinging.  Diana jumped with Justine.

We prepared chicken legs, potatoes, bean salad, and squash for supper.  When we were going inside to eat, I asked them if they were hungry, "No, auntie."  They cleaned their plates.  And they loved the chicken legs.  I heard later that they have chicken on holidays only, so it is really a treat.  I've never seen children eat every bit of meat off of the bone.  I also learned later that the children will always reply that they are not hungry.  You just have to offer them food, then they will eat.  In truth, they aren't hungry--not compared to what they have been in the past.

When they finished eating, they all brought their plates and scraped the bones and other bits remaining into the trash can.  I thanked them, but then they did the most unexpected thing.  They washed every single dish--the ones I had cooked with, the ones we had all eaten from, all of them.  Then they sang a little song thanking me for the good food.  I wish I knew all of the words; it was so sweet.  

Then they sang a couple of praise songs and prayed.  They say the sweetest prayers.  They are so grateful for all of their blessings, and each time they asked God to continue to bless the host family, so that we could give to others--sometimes specifically saying to please give the host family more money.  They gave us way too much credit I'm afraid.  

From there, Perpetua took them to bed.  She runs a tight ship; it was about 8:45.  I can see why she is the head teacher.  She is so very dedicated.  She has left her own family of seven children to travel with the choir for four months.  It was obvious she missed them so much, but she said to me that she did what she had to do, for it was God's calling.  I certainly believe that it is.  She is a very special lady.

Sunday, June 1, 2008

Hope


What a weekend!  We have had an incredible, amazing, wonderful weekend.  We have been blessed in a way that is quite indescribable.  I had experiences this weekend that I have never had before, nor could I have imagined having.   Our church was blessed to be able to host the Hope for Africa Children's Choir from the East Africa Conference.  These children attend the Humble School in Uganda.  I encourage you to go to the following links to find out more about them.



This has some video from the United Methodist Annual Conference in Texas.  Scroll down to April 28 to find the performance by the children as well as a couple of other videos.


I looked at these images and read these same stories before this weekend, but now I have hugged these children (many times!), laughed with them, cooked for them and cared for them.  They are so very real and so very needy.  They are also so very wonderful.  I have never been thanked so many times--for everything from driving them to giving them some medicine for their coughs!  

They are beautiful.  Their joy is pure--straight from the Lord in Heaven.  They delight in Him in such a pure way.  I have so much to share about our experiences this weekend--and of course many, many pictures.  I will be posting them soon.  Please pray for these children.  Pray that they find sponsors to help pay for the cost of staying at the school.  And if you would like to provide some financial support to them, let me know.  I will get the information you need to you.

Monday, May 19, 2008

Simplifying

I saw this on another blog and wanted to share it.

(Make sure to mute the music on the sidebar before playing the video.)

 

My New Look

Okay, so I've had several lately.  I've been going through an identity crisis of sorts since changing the name of my blog.  I have recently acquired PhotoShop, and it is so much fun!  I wanted our blog to look fun and happy and well, representative of our family.  So yesterday afternoon I made this:
Cute, right?  But I am a PhotoShop novice, and DeeDee, well, she is good.  She made my current blog header, and as much as I like mine, hers has a polished look.  And if you think the one that she made for my blog looks good, you should check out the one she made for herself.  It is awesome.  She made this cool flower background from a picture of a single flower.  

We got so many of the same genes, and while I am blessed with the desire to create, DeeDee is the one with the ability to do so.  So, thanks DeeDee, I think my identity crisis is over.  I love the new look of my blog and plan to keep it for quite a while.  

First S'mores of the Summer



We have a chimney pot that Mom and Dad gave us a few years ago.  Since building our patio we have used the chimney pot many, many times--almost always to make s'mores.   One day last week Emma and I picked up sticks, broke them into the proper size and got them ready for the chimney pot.  Last night Tim decided it was time to put them to use.  


Tim and Annie like to lightly toast their marshmallows so that they are lightly brown on the outside, but gooey on the inside.  I like mine black and crispy on the outside.  Emma will toast them to order for others, but her s'mores are sans marshmallows.  She'll take half a Hershey bar sandwiched between two graham crackers thank you very much.  I'm guessing the first, but not only, problem with the marshmallows is that they are just too messy for Miss Emma Kate.  

The sun was going down as we roasted our marshmallows, and the temperature was a bit cool, but those fifteen minutes were a perfect ending to our day.  We are so excited that our summer break is almost here.  We are truly happiest in each others' company.  We are making an effort to simplify our lives, and there is much fun to be had around a small fire--especially when there is chocolate involved!
Every once in a while, I do hand the camera over to Tim and let him take a few pictures.  But, really, can you tell why it isn't very often?  ;)



Sunday, May 18, 2008

Adventures with Daddy


Annie and Emma wanted to see what it is like under the house today, so Tim took them on a little adventure.  Annie said it was "so cool!"  




Church after-school program


KIC had their end of the year bash a couple of weeks ago.  They sang songs, and we had a meal.  It is hard to believe that next year Emma will be big enough to participate too.

Field Trip!!!






Emma had a field trip week before last to Chaney's Dairy Barn and then to a park not too far away.  She had a blast, as she always does, but even more so because her Daddy accompanied her.  He was supposed to leave that day to go the the state A.D. conference.  They were having a golf tournament and some time to just relax.  Instead he decided to go with Emma.  He is a wonderful daddy along with being a wonderful A.D.  While he did not win the A.D. award, he wins best Daddy award as far as I'm concerned.  He always puts others before himself, and the A.D. who introduced him (and nominated him as well) mentioned this in his introduction.  
Emma has such fun with her class.  She may not talk to her friends, but that doesn't stop her from running, laughing and having lots of fun.  The fact that she doesn't talk to her friends seems to be a non-issue for them, and she communicates very well nonverbally. But I'll post more about that later.  I'm planning on an end-of-school update soon. 
While on the field trip, they took a hay ride, learned about cows and where milk comes from, got to pet a cow and calf, had lunch, ice cream, and went to play at the park. It was a fun day, and Emma was exhausted later.  She slept very well that night!

Basketball Banquet


The girls' basketball team had their banquet a couple of weeks ago.  It was particularly special considering the great success they had this year.  The fact that my children were able to participate in the state finals with them in such a memorable way still amazes me.  I never blogged about that experience, but it was just a wonderful thing for Annie and Emma.  Coach Lindsey further recognized them at the banquet and gave each of them a plaque that has their names, a team picture, which they are a part of, and a list of the team successes.  They stood at the front with Hallie Anna as Coach Lindsey talked about the important role of water girls.  He told the story of our game at WEHS where they provided only 12 cups, so Annie went to the rest room and washed them before reusing them so that no one would get sick.  I love that Emma and Hallie Anna are holding hands in the picture!

Animal Fair


Friday was the annual FFA animal fair held at the high school.  Annie and Emma were each bussed over for a visit.  At one point all four of us were out there together--shivering as we looked at the various animals.  Yes, shivering.  It was quite cold. I brought a jacket down to Annie, and she was so grateful.  We have two days of school left, and it has still been cold enough to need jackets and the heat in the car.  Brrr.  We are ready for warm weather, sunshine, and summer!

The jacket helped, but it was still chilly!





Friday, May 2, 2008

Emma Kate



I Just had to share Emma's outfit of choice for school this morning.  (Notice the sleeveless shirt.)  She also wore a low ponytail and with this scarf/headband thing on.  And I still don't know why my pictures show up sideways.  Ugh.

Monday, April 28, 2008

Emma's Triumph



Each year my cousin puts together an NCAA bracket contest for the family through yahoo.  My granddad offers $100 to the winner.  It is lots of fun as there is a message board and we can look to see who is winning and make comments back and forth despite being scattered around.  This was Emma's first year to participate.  I let her choose her own winners, and she was able to do so completely on her own because all she had to do was point and click.
After choosing the first couple, she said, "I'm just going to choose the one with the lowest number."  And with a few exceptions (UK, Davidson, and WKU mainly and just for the first or second rounds)  that is what she did.  Well, in a year where all four number ones make it to the final four, that is going to bode pretty well.  Emma beat everyone else, and was pretty happy to hear about all the people who she chose better than. (Especially Uncle Doug)
Anyway, she received her $100 presented by my granddad a few nights ago.  My grandmother took pictures, and I am so glad that she did.  Emma had lots of fun with this, and I'm sure will look forward to this again next year because any kind of competition in our house is a big deal.

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Congratulations!


If you know our family, you know that my husband works extremely hard.  His three jobs require a lot of time, but he enjoys them all and gives of himself freely.  Next week he will be honored at a banquet at the state athletic directors' conference.  He has been nominated and is a finalist for Athletic Director of the Year.  I am so proud of him.  In a profession that often goes with little gratitude, it is nice to receive recognition--and his is certainly well-deserved.  (I have no idea why my picture is posting sideways; it is not like that in my file.  Oh well!)